Q. What was the worst experience in the best relationship you've
A. Present relationships excluded, the worst experience in the best
of my previous relationships must be losing my lover to AIDS 8 years
ago, after he and I had just completed putting our troublesome issues
aside! On the lighter side, let me add that what we shared, even through
his death-transition was so brilliant and beautiful that even the worst
event, our parting, was a great and intimate sharing. We did it together.
Merry Christmas, Paul.