Q. What was your worst sexual experience?
A. My worst sexual experience was when I was seduced by a co-worker.
We had sex at my house once, even though I didn't really want to. The
problem is that he keeps harassing me and trying to get me to sleep
with him again. It makes going to work everyday a bad situation, and
no one there will do anything about it. The people I've talked to seem
to think that because we're both men, or maybe because I already did
have sex with him once, that he can't possibly be harassing me.
Q. What was your first gay sexual experience like?
A. Bittersweet. I was swept away by the romance. I allowed myself
to become intoxicated by the seduction. I experienced a level of belief
and trust in another person that I had never felt before. I felt for
the first time the feeling of surrender, the bliss, the hope for my
future. After a few weeks I was betrayed and hope became despair...I
learned the pain of mistrust.